A French-style high tea is less about abundance and more about refinement.
Inspired by Parisian salons and countryside gatherings, French afternoon tea favours simplicity, balance, and beauty — where every element feels considered, but never excessive.
This guide will help you understand what defines French high tea style and how to recreate it for elegant gatherings, weddings, or intimate celebrations.
To recreate this look at home, these are the pieces that matter most.
What Makes a High Tea “French”?
French high tea is guided by a few quiet principles:
- Fewer items, chosen well
- Soft, harmonious colour palettes
- Quality over quantity
- A relaxed, unhurried atmosphere
Rather than elaborate displays, French tea tables feel effortless, as though everything simply belongs.
This French High Tea style is especially popular for bridal showers and wedding teas.
French High Tea Table Styling
A Soft, Neutral Colour Palette
French tea tables often feature:
- Whites, creams, blush, and soft pastels
- Muted gold or antique silver accents
- Natural textures such as linen or cotton
Avoid strong contrasts or busy patterns — restraint is the signature.
Create a very special-looking table by using a table skirt. We love this Pretty Blush Rose Chiffon Table Skirt that reaches to the floor and drapes beautifully.
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Flowers: Natural and Loosely Arranged
Florals should feel organic rather than structured.
- Garden roses, peonies, or seasonal blooms
- Simple vases or low arrangements
- A slightly imperfect look
Think freshly gathered, not formal centrepieces.
French Afternoon Tea Menu: Simple & Refined
A French-style tea menu is light and balanced.
Typical offerings include:
- Delicate finger sandwiches
- Small pastries or cakes
- Fresh fruit or lightly sweet treats
The goal is to offer a few beautiful options rather than an overwhelming spread.
A Simple French Afternoon Tea Menu
A French-style high tea menu is intentionally modest.
Rather than offering many choices, focus on a few beautifully prepared items that feel light and balanced.
A classic French tea menu might include:
- One savoury option
Delicate finger sandwiches such as cucumber, egg, or lightly seasoned chicken - One sweet pastry or cake
A small slice of cake, madeleine, or refined patisserie - Fresh fruit or a lightly sweet bite
Berries or a simple fruit tart to keep the table feeling fresh - Tea, served simply
One or two quality teas, without an overwhelming selection
The aim is not abundance, but harmony — each item complementing the others.
Serve these on small plates and tiered stands to keep the table light and elegant.
French High Tea for Weddings & Special Occasions
French high tea is particularly well-suited to:
- Tea party weddings
- Bridal showers
- Elegant afternoon celebrations
For weddings, keep the table styling cohesive and understated. Soft linens, porcelain teacups, and a limited colour palette create a romantic atmosphere without feeling staged.
French-Inspired Serving Pieces (Choose Carefully)
A few well-chosen serving pieces elevate the table:
- A classic tiered stand in porcelain or glass
- Matching teacups and saucers
- Simple cake plates or trays
Avoid mixing too many styles. In French design, harmony matters more than variety.
This is the most versatile piece for French-style hosting, elegant enough for weddings, relaxed enough for home.
And also the matching plate, teacup and saucer set adds to the elegance.
Final French Styling Tips
French high tea is about creating a moment — not impressing with excess.
If your table feels calm, cohesive, and inviting, you’ve done it right.
More Tea Party Inspiration
If you’re planning a full tea party, you may also enjoy:
Looking for more inspiration for your next tea party event? The New Vintage Tea Party Book has lots of ideas, recipes, and inspiration for your next event.